I consider myself to be a good natured gentleman. I’m not looking to change someone nor do I want to be changed. I do expect growth and thru that change. I dislike being controlled or molded to fit your vision or needs. Life can put enough obstacles in the road, a relationship shouldn't be one of them. I'm not shallow but physical attraction is important, NOT as important as a great personality, I admire honesty and openness. I like Chess, Sudoku, Cards, Tennis, Golf, and Walks etc. Music is a passion and maybe a first love, sorry. I do like to play, listen and dance to Music. In the past I traveled for work and fun. Tokyo, France, Italy, England, Greece, Dominican Republic, St Martin, Hawaii and Zurich. I enjoy movies, books, the Arts and Traveling etc...My Match: Unique, confident, understanding, open and honest, enjoy chess, cards, movies, books, travel, and share the same virtues, respect, truth, honesty, and love.